Anonymous #2 20h

huh?

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Anonymous OP 20h

Plus in my experience, the most violent men are rewarded in life so there’s an incentive there

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Anonymous #2 20h

can you explain? how are violent men rewarded? rewarded with what?

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Anonymous OP 20h

The most immediate one is frat culture. Terrible men rewarded with social support, heterosexual relationships, and networking.

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Anonymous #2 20h

i can understand part of what you're saying. shitty people everywhere rise to the top of society in many cases. but what do you mean by heterosexual relationships?

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Anonymous OP 20h

I went to a SEC school. Two actually but I transferred and finished at one. I distinctly remember driving in town on Friday night to pick up a pizza or two to enjoy back a home and watch a movie and hitting a a few red lights and watching 100s women walk (some even bare feet) to fraternity row. The only time I’ve seen large number of young women assemble like that is to be within the vicinity of awful men. Those days made me re evaluate my male guilt card.

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Anonymous #2 20h

there's nothing wrong with women wanting to party or have fun imo. that doesn't mean they're into bad guys- they just want to have a college experience like everybody else imo. i don't think the average woman likes shitty men- if anything, women are opting out of dating entirely. also, could you explain the male guilt thing? i've heard it before

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Anonymous OP 20h

Unlike most women, I’ve always been accountable for who I interact with and never stepped foot within a frat in all my years of college

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Anonymous #2 20h

should women not go out? should we not party? should we cover up from head to toe at all times? what are you impling? you're making generalizations about all women and turning this down a path of negativity when all i wanted was a healthy conversation

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Anonymous OP 20h

Do whatever you want. Frats sexually assault women 300% more but if you must go to be around the 6 foot white guys with dad’s money, by all means have your "fun". My guilt card is certainly gone.

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Anonymous OP 20h

Women thinking the “college experience” is getting shitfaced at frats isn’t grounded in anything except their thinking. There’s no universal way to experience college. Personally for me I spent all 4 years grinding away my freetime studying

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Anonymous #2 20h

you seem to have a lot of assumptions about all women. why do you have so many thoughts about what women do?

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Anonymous OP 20h

Because my eyes work

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Anonymous #2 20h

again, women dont think the same. and people are allowed to do what they want with their lives. just because it doesnt look like your life, doesnt mean they are lesser than you or flawed. you are not superior because you never took breaks to have fun. why all the negativity?

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Anonymous OP 19h

Like I said, do whatever you want. But don’t feel entitled to male guilt :)

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Anonymous #2 19h

...ok? this post wasn't about male guilt. that isnt relevant and you seem to have some internal disdain towards women and society all i was asking was if you think that male violence and emotional immaturity is exaggerated/made up, or actually has merit/based in reality.

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Anonymous OP 19h

That’s your opinion doesn’t make it. Personally I’d argue the men who are harming women have disdain towards women, but we’re not ready for that conversation it seems

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Anonymous #2 19h

are you going to answer the question of the post or no

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Anonymous #3 19h

yeah what a waste of time. how hard can it be to answer a simple poll

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Anonymous OP 19h

The answer is as long as women reward terrible men with their company, no, I don’t have male guilt.

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Anonymous OP 14h

Yeah lmao j read all that, wasn’t worth it, #2 is embarrassing and it is j embarrassing to be a man these days with all the awful shit that goes on

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Anonymous #5 13h

yeah your fellow men do a really bad job and make all of you guys look bad 😭💔 im sure theres good men out there, and i commend all of the good men who work on themselves and call out bad behavior.

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