All other things equal, by and large, men don’t appreciate bitchiness from anyone, regardless of race, and kindness will serve better for most of us. BUT we’re also marginally more willing to tolerate/romanticize unpleasant behavior from people we’re attracted to, and from your perspective, it looks like you’ve heard from more men who are into latinas than into black women

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Not an answer for all cases, but I think on average latinas are just small- smaller than the average black girl. So the same aggression is seen as kinda comical in some latinas that would be taken more seriously in some black girls

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Racism and stereotypes

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I mean personally I see it as aggressive from both, spicy is only if there’s a playful note to it

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I aint like that but im black so you know the crazier the better in my mind

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I think it's the perception that Latinas are more likely to be aggressive (not necessarily physically), but also very mother like and make you some bomb ass food afterwards.

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I’ll have you know I’m actually a manchild with unresolved self-love issues stemming from childhood emotional neglect. So I believe in the equality of all colors and creeds of women being mean to me specifically; it’s not a gender issue it’s……just me

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