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Idk if I’ll ever be ready to date :(( how do I become ready? How do I know I am ready?
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Anonymous 2d

You just do it. Be up front with any doubts you might have and do your best to be honest and open with the person you’re dating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

I have done that and still hurt them :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I don’t want to hurt others but idk how to get better

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Well what has the problem been?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Mental health, attachment issues, lack of experience, not finding many people interesting enough to date

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I don’t want to overstep, but I think you should be able to work around that if you and the person you date commit yourselves to that kind of communication. There was a time when I got over attachment issues like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

I have tried in the past, said everything I was dealing with, and still couldn’t take the sleepless nights and pain it was to not run away and end it

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