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How long should we know each other before agreeing to sex? I don’t want to come across as a slut, but I also don’t want him to think I’m not interested.
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Anonymous 7w

Do NOT make that decision strategically. Have sex with him when YOU want to, not when you think it’ll send the right message. The right message is the accurate one: the #1 lesson (and sometimes only) info he’s going to take from it is how much you like sex and how much you like him. Both of those are things he needs accurate information about How many dates have you been on with him? Do you WANT to fuck him now?

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Anonymous 7w

At the very least a month

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Anonymous 7w

Depends on if u wanna date him or just hook up

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Anonymous 7w

Depends on the guy I suppose.

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Anonymous 7w

Totally depends on the person and your intentions

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Anonymous 7w

Marriage

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 7w

I can’t tell! Also asking him feels like it’ll ruin the mystique. But it looks like a month is the popular answer.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Yeah a month sounds like a safe bet

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

This 👆

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

4 and yes very much so but I’m afraid that if I want to and he doesn’t or if he thinks it’s too soon, it’ll be bad. I don’t necessarily want to strategize but my anxiety about it is making me. 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

If he’s been on four dates with you, YES he wants to fuck you. Probably even more than you do. Whichever one he thought was “the I’m not a slut date”, you’re well past it. You’re torturing yourself bc you’re nervous but you don’t need to be. Call that guy up and nail him before his blue balls start dragging on the ground lmao, he’s probably got em taped to his calf by now

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

^^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Be more open minded. Totally fine if that’s how you feel, but not everyone does or needs to feel that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

Read your comment, then read mine. Subjectivity.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

My comment is objective, yours is subjective

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

That’s true of most comments in here, yours is just BY FAR the least likely to be applicable to the poster

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Like obviously OP is not saving themselves for marriage if they posted this. Read the room

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