Yeah I’ve been in that position before, I changed my strategy and now I have a gf of 1.5 years. The key is to find a girl who’s dtf asap then you know she’s really into you, the rest you treat them out and give attention and if they don’t reciprocate just move on it’s a sunk cost. While doing this you should continually improve to the best version of yourself. Good luck!
But also real women want real men. As harsh as it sounds I fully expect my man to be a provider. I am honestly happy to stay home, cook, support a loving home, raise kids, etc. but that’s only possible if my future man makes enough to support that lifestyle. If that can’t happen I’m already planning on going to med school to support myself and working towards the lifestyle I want.