This might sound silly. But how am I supposed to actually wake my man up when he’s sleeping just because I’m in the mood. He has said to but gosh he just looks so peaceful sleeping. That’s where we’re at in our relationship.
Just start sliding towards him and gently “twerk” on him.
You can also cuddly really closely and kiss him.
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Anonymous3w
You could just start humping him
(FOR THE RECORD I AM JOKING)
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Anonymous3w
Honestly just like sit on him or something, as a guy I wouldn’t say no to that
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Anonymous3w
Sit in him and start kissing him
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Anonymous#13w
To
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Anonymous#13w
Fair enough. I just talk myself out of being in the mood if he’s sleeping. Especially because our sex lift isn’t lacking.
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Anonymous#13w
It was more of a I mentioned it before and he went “you know you can wake me up right?” I’ll give it a go next time around and see.
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Anonymous#23w
Lolll. I’ve been joking with him all day now at this point. He said I could kick him in the shins and he’d still be thrilled
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AnonymousOP3w
Hey, he said it, not me🤣
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Anonymous#23w
The man works like crazy all day and even sometimes on Sundays so idk I thought I’d let him sleep. No. He wants to me to wake him up if I feel into it.
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AnonymousOP3w
Speaking as a guy, 90% of the time we are more than willing to oblige you.
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Anonymous#23w
He’s just picking on me now. “Have I ever hesitated? Ever? We snuck upstairs at *his best friend*’s wedding reception because you looked at me the right way.
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AnonymousOP3w
See? The dude knows I’m right. Trust me, if you feel up to it, literally slap him if you have to. He’ll still do it.
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Anonymous#23w
Oh and now he’s being all cute. See this is why I’ve stayed with guy and we live together now. Sure I’ll wake up for that or if I just want to talk.
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AnonymousOP3w
He’d appreciate it all the same lol
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Anonymous#23w
Sometimes I just am still learning what’s it like to be loved this way. But he never fails to make it known.
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AnonymousOP3w
As sounds like you guys are in a good relationship! Don’t let go of that man lol
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AnonymousOP3w
Oh to be loved like that
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Anonymous#23w
I stayed with this man while he got through law school, gonna have to try real hard to scare me off now
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AnonymousOP3w
You guys are relationship goals. If only I could talk to women
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Anonymous#33w
It really is something special. Idk how we got this far. I guess we both just try every day.
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Anonymous#23w
Oh haha we met at a college fb game as undergrads haha. I got too excited about a touchdown and smacked his drink over lol. So then it became a thing that he’d joke about when we’d cross paths.
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AnonymousOP3w
So what I’m hearing is I need to start smacking drinks out of people’s hands lol
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AnonymousOP3w
Actual couple goals
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Anonymous#23w
Haha you know it worked once
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AnonymousOP3w
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Anonymous#33w
It’s the best. I’ve never had to question his motives or his here he’s at. He says what he’s thinking.
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AnonymousOP3w
Jealous
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Anonymous#33w
It was a little intimidating at first. I was not used to that. So having someone stop dead in their sentence and just say how they feel was wild
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Anonymous#23w
Have not lived it down with my friends and it’s been years. I was so frantic apologizing and using every napkin we had. Meanwhile he was 5 beers deep and couldn’t have cared less.
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AnonymousOP3w
I need something like that
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Anonymous#33w
I got so used to having to stay over to lure him to finally get some sleep in law school. It’s just become instinct to me to prioritize getting him to sleep. Meanwhile the man sleeps like a rock now.
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AnonymousOP3w
You’re making me miss having a gf
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Anonymous#33w
6 years going and 3 of which were law school. Was a long 3 years and were not even a year since he graduated. I’m just unlearning some of the things I once had to do
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AnonymousOP3w
That’s sweet
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Anonymous#33w
Was hard but it never felt heavy. It was just what it was
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AnonymousOP3w
Yeah yall are couple goals
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Anonymous#33w
We just talk. Example. We’ve quit greeting each other after work by asking how it was. It’s “Hey Babe I love you” and it’s open to talking about but doesn’t have to be.
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AnonymousOP3w
That’s like the relationship right there
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Anonymous#33w
Took a lot from what an older couple said to us at the first wedding we ever attended together.
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Anonymous#33w
Was simple things like make dinner time just your time, you’re going to eat anyway. No put in going to bed mad, you’re probably not even mad at each other but rather the situation anyways. Take time to make the other feel special and do the little things.
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Anonymous#33w
I usually get home an hour or two from work before he does. So like today I just got started on getting all his laundry done it’s one less thing on his plate. He does it himself but I have the time today.
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AnonymousOP3w
I’m taking notes for when I’m locked in with someone
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Anonymous#33w
Haha well dm is open to share our whole story or give advice. Although I don’t feel qualified for advice. But it’s what works for us
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AnonymousOP3w
I gotta meet someone first
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Anonymous#33w
Haha honestly sometimes it’s just as simple as saying hello. Dont get too bogged down in it