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Ask Men 9w
Just need opinions/ a guys pov. My ex has a lot of nude pics of me (not my idea but convinced me if I didn’t send them I didn’t trust him) and things didn’t end the greatest with us, he says he deleted them all but idk if I believe it, do guys tend to
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Anonymous 9w

I am going to be honest. There is no way that guy deleted those photos. And never ever do that again no matter what. Nudes aren’t it. Come see the real thing live and in color.

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Anonymous 9w

As a woman this is why i don't send nudes unless i don't care about them keeping it. I knew several guys who kept literal albums of girls and their nudes on their phones

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Anonymous 9w

a good guy would delete them but a guy pressuring you into sending them probably wont delete them

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Anonymous 9w

Nah you’re cooked. Don’t let another guy gaslight you like that again, nudes don’t indicate anything other than one of yall is horny

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Anonymous 9w

I got bad news for ya probably… especially if he manipulated you into sending

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Anonymous 9w

I sent my ex nudes when we were on good terms but didn’t completely trust him when we broke up, and he didn’t trust me either, so we sent each other video evidence of us manually deleting each others nudes (and we were on good enough terms to let the other go through our phones and make sure there wasn’t a secret stash)

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Anonymous 9w

Do guys tend to keep those pics even after the breakup?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

it depends on what kind of guy he is. the way you make it sound (like he pressured you into sending them) I would be SUPER cautious.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

That being said, the fact that he pressured you is a huge red flag. Maybe 30% chance he actually deleted those im so sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

He sent me a screenshot of them being deleted and of him deleting them from recently deleted but like I really do think he could just have them in a seperate app or folder or already sent them to a different phone and there’s no way for me to confirm that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

I agree 100%. Like I gaslit myself that it doesn’t matter though cause he moved to a different country so my fears of him emailing them to my school or work have kind of diminished

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Tbh, I don’t doubt that he still has at least some of the pics but honestly idrc my main concern was like if he ever posts them or like emails my school or job them 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Emailing that to a school or job is wild. I’d be more concerned about him uploading them to like websites or social media

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Yes like that was my concern too basically or even him blackmailing me and saying he’d send them to my parents or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I didn’t think about that but yea that would be another possibility

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