Ask Men on Yik Yak | Is being a virgin at 20 a turn off? I thought it wouldn’t be a big deal but a lot of the guys I talk to get distant with me after it’s brought up.

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Ask Men 8w

Is being a virgin at 20 a turn off? I thought it wouldn’t be a big deal but a lot of the guys I talk to get distant with me after it’s brought up.

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Anonymous 8w

It might feel like a lot of pressure on a guy, especially if he has more experience

Anonymous 8w

Not a turn off but I prefer some experience

Anonymous 8w

No you chillin

Anonymous 8w

I would find that preferable

Anonymous 8w

It’s not a turn off.

Anonymous 8w

There’s layers to this game. Lots of weirdos who won’t date a woman unless she’s a virgin and you want to steer clear of them because they’re very often just your average tradcath guy who will do terrible things to you. If you’re a complete 10/10 like objectively speaking you could pull anybody I’m going to be curious as to why you haven’t. Not going to lie I’m going to assume the reason probably isn’t great bc rn we live in a society where it’s never been easier to get hookups.

Anonymous 8w

I’m in the same boat so idrc

Anonymous

sea_taco 8w

Why would it be pressure?

Anonymous

#5 8w

Now if you’re anything below a 6/10 then I can kinda understand it’s a looks-based thing and probably not a big deal. But in my honest opinion unless you’re saving yourself for marriage there’s no reason you should be a virgin by 20 lmao.

Anonymous

#5 8w

I have people trying to hook up regularly, I just want to wait for the right person

Anonymous

OP 8w

Ok that’s fair enough I’m in a similar boat