Basically I wanna know if you guys think I’m just his rebound or if there’s a chance he could actually be over his long term relationship already and like me

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Me not long but I’m also one of those dudes who forgets about the past unless it’s important

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I think it depends how long the relationship was. It would prolly be good in 6 months if it was like a year Ig. Longer than that, it would take a lot longer imo.

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Bruh if u ain’t over her in 6 months ull never get over her

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it depends on a lot of factors. the guy, how the relationship ended, how long the relationship lasted etc.

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6 MONTHS?? Ma’am, quit stalling and go bag that man. 6 hours would be long enough if you’re the right person for him. My last time was 3 hours. Though that’s an outlier, it’s not a comfort or readiness thing, I just lucked out

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I guess, come to think of it, this poses a far more important question. How long do women think it’s supposed to take men to be over a long relationship? I’ve noticed before that y’all, uh, don’t like if it’s been too recent. But I thought that was more in the ballpark of one month, two at most. How long actually is the statute of limitations before a guy’s ‘presumptive damaged goods’ status expires? As a consensus among women I mean?

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OP I’m in same boat! Found out the guy I’m taking to was in a long term relationship this past fall (sep) BUT she cheated on him… would that mean he’s over her (ik he’s had hookups since bc I asked his body count 💀) but I just can’t tell if he’s ready or not for another relationship

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Mine was 4 1/2 years and I’m gonna be real, it could take maybe a year. But that was also bc I needed to work through some personal issues such as self worth, learning about who I am and finding my interests before I felt ready to date, if that makes sense

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If he’s searching for options he’s ready

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