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How do I find like a nerdy man, I somehow often attract insane military men and the nerdy ones do not look my way 💔 serious inquiry
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Anonymous 1d

Show up to your local card and game store Ask one you find attractive (hard part) how to play Boom, youre in. Alternatives include local STEM competitions, conferences, and school libraries.

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Anonymous 1d

Explore ur hobbies

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Explore their hobbies

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I tried, like I joined a sci fi club and they legit did not wanna talk to me 😭 I think I’m just cooked

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Ideally you want someone to match your own personality. Exploring ur own hobbies will introduce those nerdy ppl more like you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Make an effort to talk to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I did I got called a larper (I’m literally reading dungeon crawler Carl with my eren Yeager reading light)😔 buttt I’ll try to try again maybe with new ppl so ty for the advice

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

This is so real. I’m also a nerdy woman and I get called a larper often. It’s either that or they’re really into the fact that I am a woman in the space. I had to leave the anime club on my campus as I was the only woman and got asked if my “boobs boob boobily down the stairs” and if I would be this guy’s waifu. Thankfully I was able to find some friends that aren’t weird like that though, mainly through D&D groups.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Oh my god girl I’m so sorry 😭 the anime fans can be insane I lowkey just keep it to myself atp, and don’t get me started on putting my mic on playing video games

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

Don’t forget the esports gamers

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