Ask Men on Yik Yak | My male coworkers have frequently been asking me if I need help carrying things (I work at a mailroom) and recently I’ve seen a lot about how men just want to feel useful. Am I hurting their feelings by rejecting their offers?

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My male coworkers have frequently been asking me if I need help carrying things (I work at a mailroom) and recently I’ve seen a lot about how men just want to feel useful. Am I hurting their feelings by rejecting their offers?

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Anonymous 1w

i think it's just them trying to show manners or be nice. it's okay to say no if you don't need the help

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Anonymous 5d

Probably not hurting their feelings no but also it does feel nice to be helpful. If it’s no difference to you I’d let em, but it’s also a total non-issue.

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Anonymous 1w

No i think they are flirting with u

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beestboy 1w

Definitely not lol

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#2 1w

I’ve been working out recently so I just have it in my head that I don’t want help 😅

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