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Ask Men 33w
He says it’s not casual and he says he loves me and wants to show up for me, but he’s not ready for a relationship. I don’t get it
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Anonymous 33w

It sounds like he loves you but he’s got his own issues to work through before he feels like he deserves you. Imo. The issue probably has nothing to do with you. Why not ask him what’s holding hum back?

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Anonymous 33w

He’s leading you on until he finds someone he wants to commit to

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 33w

Why tell me he loves me then out of the blue? That alone almost scared me off

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 33w

To keep you around, at least that’s what he thinks will keep you around

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 33w

He thought I just wanted casual, he says he “let it slip” too soon and was embarrassed

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