Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
trying to shed some toxic thoughts as a girl about how men are all the same and have no emotions and just want sex/to hurt women and it lowkey has made me think i might be bi and not lesbian (pls no weird dms)
upvote 24 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

Ngl, Ive never met another woman that’s a lesbian because of her distaste in the men that happen to be awful. A vast majority of the lesbians I’ve meet just aren’t attracted to men. Even the chivalrous men. Also it sounds like you believe in gender essentialism, which is kinda crazy. Correct me if I’m wrong though

upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

Why does that make you think you’re bi?

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

There are good men

upvote 2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

We have emotions, we just don't share most of them openly to avoid perceptions of weakness. I just want to ask you what it is that you are looking to hear from us, other than "Yea, we are people too with real feelings/aspirations/beliefs and actually we aren't all secretly evil even if you think that"

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Also you can turn DMs off

upvote 10 downvote