I never understood why my ex gf would talk about men celebrities like I wasn't in the room. Like 'omg he's so hot', 'look at his body', and other shit. Like yeah we're both thinking it, but it's really disrespectful to oogleover another guy when the guy you supposedly love is in the room.
Saying if she ever thought someone was cheating she wouldn’t talk to me about it she’d just cheat back. That plus the fact that she thought she could reliably determine that by “women’s intuition”. I was like “so, in English, that means as soon as you feel like cheating you’ll decide it’s justified and do it?” And she was like “what? Nono I would never do that with YOU. I just mean in general.” Literally couldn’t wrap her mind around why that’s a red flag lol
From then on I’ve simplified it to pretty much rule out any woman who thinks she has psychic powers of any kind. Just not possible to reason with those folks. For the same reason even having a tiktok is kind of a red flag, though so common you can’t always rely exclusively on that unless a non-toxic alternative is available
I do feel like the women’s initiation thing is very real. However, I do feel like if someone’s cheating on you it’s always better to just walk away. I understand wanting revenge. but when you take revenge all it does is make the person focus on your hurtful actions rather than their own.