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What did she casually say/do that made you realize she wouldn’t be your wife?
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Anonymous 17w

I never understood why my ex gf would talk about men celebrities like I wasn't in the room. Like 'omg he's so hot', 'look at his body', and other shit. Like yeah we're both thinking it, but it's really disrespectful to oogleover another guy when the guy you supposedly love is in the room.

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Anonymous 17w

Bad communication, having a roster, saying “I hate men”

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Anonymous 17w

trauma dumping the instant we met, having an OF account

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Anonymous 17w

Saying if she ever thought someone was cheating she wouldn’t talk to me about it she’d just cheat back. That plus the fact that she thought she could reliably determine that by “women’s intuition”. I was like “so, in English, that means as soon as you feel like cheating you’ll decide it’s justified and do it?” And she was like “what? Nono I would never do that with YOU. I just mean in general.” Literally couldn’t wrap her mind around why that’s a red flag lol

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Anonymous 17w

Flew off the cuff at minor inconveniences

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Anonymous 17w

the way she interacted with servers and talked shit about her friends when they weren’t around

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Anonymous 16w

When she was giving me really dry text messages and barely replied. Then when I forgot to text her one day because I was busy with other stuff, she blew up on me saying that I wasn’t giving her attention. I broke up with her the fallowing week, 1.5 years gone

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

I’d leave after the first time, that shit is so mentally and emotionally draining

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 17w

By roster do you mean dating multiple people at the same time or like breathed the same air as a man before type?

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 17w

Valid

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Dating, or at least a lot of serious talking stages

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Anonymous replying to -> vangogh 17w

an OF account where she posted or just watched others?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17w

she posted

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

From then on I’ve simplified it to pretty much rule out any woman who thinks she has psychic powers of any kind. Just not possible to reason with those folks. For the same reason even having a tiktok is kind of a red flag, though so common you can’t always rely exclusively on that unless a non-toxic alternative is available

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 17w

Fair

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

I do feel like the women’s initiation thing is very real. However, I do feel like if someone’s cheating on you it’s always better to just walk away. I understand wanting revenge. but when you take revenge all it does is make the person focus on your hurtful actions rather than their own.

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