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What’s the best way to get my bf to listen when I say I hate staying at the house everyday? I like going out and doing things w him, but he doesn’t
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Anonymous 1w

Y’all might just not be a good match. Did yall discuss this at the start? Because someone who loves going out and a strict homebody isn’t the best match

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yes, and now all the sudden he just wants to stay in everyTIME we see each other. I’ve explained that it’s all I do when we aren’t together and it would be fun to do something FREE every now and then

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

So you are saying he liked going out then he flipped?? If that’s the case I would be pretty concerned. The first thing that comes to mind is maybe he is really stressed out. But it could be 1 million things. Ur right there are unlimited free things to do while going out and worst case scenario u chip in like 20 or so. No matter the reason, you feelings matter and I would talk to him sooner than later

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I agree✨

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Do you have any ideas what could’ve caused this change?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Could be a number of reasons honestly. I think the main one is that we don’t live together anymore? But like if that were the case wouldn’t you make our time together extra special?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Can u dm me? I wanna help you get to the answer. While I am biased bc I also love going out I strongly agree. I would wanna make each time as epic as possible!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Idk how to dm people on here

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You use the three dots on the right and select “start chat”, but #1’s DMs are off.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

My bad try it now

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Youre awesome

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