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are the guys that seem surface level emotionally actually able to think deeper but they don’t say it? i wish my bf felt things more deeply, but he might and im assuming he doesn’t because it’s the nonchalant plague
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Anonymous 6d

When I was with my ex I found it really hard to have any deeper than surface level conversations with her, mainly cause it seemed like she wouldn’t care, I encourage you to let him know you care about whatever he has to say and that you wish he would be more personal with you, even if he is just surface level, that lays the ground work for him to feel comfortable telling you things in the future

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Anonymous 1w

Could be the case. Or it could be that he does feel that but is unable to express or chooses not to

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Anonymous 1w

Thinking deeply is hard, better to stay head empty

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

It’s easier, but not better

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Up to one’s own perception

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