i’d say believe his explanation. things come out wrong sometimes

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It can be yeah likely not a mean comment

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Lol yeah esp athletes... ur huge and damn ur big asf and big man are used constantly

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I don’t see any red flags tbh. Seems like it came out wrong and he quickly corrected himself. If it keeps happening or something though then I could see an issue

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I’d say yeah, like we call each other big to mean muscular, I doubt he meant to insult you

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my bf does this sometimes too but totally by accident. in his brain he's just finding the most simple words to describe his thoughts but it can come out like this. i'm sure he doesn't mean for any of it to sound mean or rude 💜

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he wasn’t meaning it in a bad way we were talking about our bodies and like i’m not fat but i’m not skinny im pretty stocky and thick i guess? like big bodied in his definition isn’t very wrong but in my girl brain it just means fat so like do yall rly mean it that way

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I have never called a woman big bodied

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Why do girls all of a sudden think they’re fat because of one comment made, even if they’re clearly not fat?

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