I mean i waited a year and a half for my girl, she was def worth the wait. Just don’t be afraid to enforce your boundaries and tell people no, the right person will come along eventually.

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Please be careful and discerning with this. Had a guy ask me to be his gf just so he could get laid 😐 (thankfully, I caught his intentions though and nothing happened.. but some people are extremely manipulative and willing to wait cause for some reason they like the thrill of the chase 🥴)

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That raises some questions and he would most likely pry slowly to find the truth. If it’s true then great but understand you’re rare and most guys wouldn’t be willing to to wait (the ones you want)

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Depends on how long. If we’re goin on 3+ months it’s not for me

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For the right girl, yeah, I could wait a long while

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I would absolutely wait, and have since my current girlfriend of now 2 and a half years asked me. I’d be clear with him pretty early on though that you’re strictly looking for commitment. I’m super against hookup culture, but a guy who isn’t will likely be deterred, which in this case is a good thing.

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i would say bring it up if he asks about sex or if you guys have a convo about intimacy. if not, bring it up after 2-4 wks of talking

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Wait till the convo starts, that’ll just happen naturally. I’d say if you are trying to wait a decent while, wait till like month six to start considering sex, that’s generally when the really heavy hormones are wearing off. And you can kind of gauge it and how fast it’s moving bc other stuff will be happening before that. Also their relationship experience will change things a decent bit. Somebody who went through hoe phase will be much different than somebody who’s been in longer relationships

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As a girl with this mindset the comments reduce my faith in finding a man significantly

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