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What do you think of this? For background: wife and 1st husband are HS sweethearts but he gets TBI soon so wife divorces him and becomes his caretaker while she remarried another man who helps take care of him + has kids. Some say he is forever cucked
5 upvotes, 16 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Ask Men. "What do you think of this? For background: wife and 1st husband are HS sweethearts but he gets TBI soon so wife divorces him and becomes his caretaker while she remarried another man who helps take care of him + has kids. Some say he is forever cucked"
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Anonymous 3w

If the roles were reversed where the wife got a TBI and the husband divorced to remarry he would be an absolute piece of shit in the eyes of society, how is this different

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Anonymous 3w

I personally don’t think it’s necessarily a bad situation, but I wouldn’t want to keep living if I had no agency, I’d rather just be put down

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Anonymous 3w

I’d feel really bad for him but at least she didn’t straight up abandon him

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Anonymous 3w

I’d find a way to take my life

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Fr? Why do you think that??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Are we deadass

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

You are loved and cared for(not abandoned in a facility) so what else do you want other than that? At least I see it as something good but the guys' comments are upset over it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Would you want to be taken care of by your ex husband and his new wife should you experience the same fate

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

You say that like its bad?? Would you honestly want to be left in a facility alone with no one who cares about to celebrate the holidays with, never being able to explore or leave, and being mistreated since that happens a lot in those places

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

They could find me someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

men are more than six times more likely to separate from a wife with a serious illness

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Ok and? Still doesn’t change the fact that she did what she did

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

i don’t blame her. he’s completely gone mentally and doesn’t even remember she was his wife. wouldn’t blame anyone in that situation for leaving, man or woman tbh. at least she’s still taking care of him

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

that six times number you threw out needs some clarification, exactly what did you mean by it?

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 3w

Gender disparity in the rate of partner abandonment in patients with serious medical illness Michael J Glantz et al. Cancer. 2009.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

That's what I thought l: that study only looks at Brain Cancer and Multiple Sclerosis, completely lacks a control group, and doesn't align with similar research being a significant outlier

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