That last sentence is a little out of date. I myself don’t limit myself to my political affiliation, but I also don’t treat “terrible people” as a deal-breaker. Even the idea you can just wash your hands of your own values or the consequences (to others) of your vote because voting is your right as an American and it used to be true that voting a certain way didn’t make you a bad person, shows a lack of responsibility. And that’s a valid thing to care about in a partner