
Ngl if someoneās grabbing someone elseās privates, Iād almost certainly get the impression they want sex, and that they made that decision for themself. Not that someone CANāT be incapacitated by drunkenness, of course they can. But if youāre trying to eyeball that; someone actively propositioning people at least outwardly seems like the strongest possible indicator against incapacity
Nor mine. Not saying *I* find drunkenness attractive or hard to resist. FAR from it. Iāve turned down (drunk) girls even when they WERE grabbing at my dick. Just not because I didnāt feel like it was their choice. I think the line between ādrunk and making dumb choicesā and āincapacitated and not making choicesā is important to be conscious of above all bc incapacitated ppl are safest when people can distinguish them and recognize their particular peril and need for protection.
Iāve only ever really been in this situation when Iāve also been really drunk, and I wasnāt gonna say no then, because my ass was incapacitated, but if a girl was clearly way drunker than me then I was absolutely on my āif you still want me sober then you can tell me tomorrowā shit