Ask Men on Yik Yak | Straight dudes how do yall feel if a gay or bi dude hits on you? Like if I see you somewhere alone will you be offended if I gently ask you on a date given that I’ll leave you alone and wish you well as soon as you say no?

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Ask Men 16w

Straight dudes how do yall feel if a gay or bi dude hits on you? Like if I see you somewhere alone will you be offended if I gently ask you on a date given that I’ll leave you alone and wish you well as soon as you say no?

Anonymous 16w

I had it happen once from someone who was respectful like you seem to be and it didn’t bother me at all, just the same as a woman being friendly and shooting her shot. No offense taken yk, even as someone who’s straight idk why it’s smthn to get mad abt

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Anonymous 16w

I get hit on a fair bit and it’s kinda nice but when girls don’t give you attention or you at least are oblivious to girls giving you attention it don’t feel so great

Anonymous 16w

I’d be a little flattered to be receiving that kind of attention from anybody, especially from a gay/bi person bc in my experience they have higher expectations and standards than the average woman who’s flirted with me before, though I’d be a little put on the spot with having to say no bc I’m not looking for a relationship rn nor am I a participating member of the LGBTQIA+ community though I have been told I’m an ally

Anonymous 16w

It happens a lot and I don’t mind it because at least I know I’m not ugly

Anonymous 16w

How would you liked to be rejected bc I go the “I’m sorry bro.. “ route but I’m not sure. Also how you you feel if I offered to wingman and help each other out

Anonymous 16w

At least someones finding me attractive, even if it’s someone I don’t prefer

Anonymous 16w

Haha that sounds weird I mean in public or in a bar or cafe

Anonymous 16w

It honestly makes me feel great. If a gay man hits on me it boosts my confidence bc then I really know I look good

Anonymous 16w

I might reevaluate my look, that’s about it

Anonymous 16w

As a male blessed/cursed to look like a bear, it’s flattering as hell, sorry but I’m straight AF 😭

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Anonymous 16w

Seething rage and anger

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Anonymous

OP 16w

Also alone meaning you don’t obviously have a gf bc that’d be shitty

Anonymous

#1 16w

idk some guys seem to take it as a hit against their masculinity or feel threatened but you seem chill

Anonymous

OP 16w

Stereotypes about what gay men need to look like die hard I guess 🤷

Anonymous

#2 16w

You mean in like a “damn why can’t a girl talk to me like this” way?

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Anonymous

OP 16w

Basically, but as I’ve matured and gotten less autistic I’ve started to realize it’s just bcs guys are more up front and I’ve missed A LOTTTTT of girls flirting with me cuz I’m autistic and a dude

Anonymous

#2 16w

yeah lol im bi and I have to sext men and women differently bc if I sext women like I do men they get offended lol

Anonymous

#3 16w

I’m a straightforward (hah ironic) guy so I’d just prefer no ambiguity and don’t use me for attention or validation but also be nice about it. Lowkey I’d like that and if I can get a bro and a friendship out of it then it’s still a W in my book but that’s just me.

Anonymous

OP 16w

I’m always open to friends but that moment creates that unspoken boundary, but for sure we can party

Anonymous

#3 16w

yeah man I’m not gonna try to kiss ya or touch ya if you tell me you’re straight that’s pretty gross dude

Anonymous

#7 16w

LOL

Anonymous

#4 16w

protect this man at all costs

Anonymous

#5 16w

lol I’ll be honest for the younger guys straight dudes dress way gayer than I do. I’m a random t shirt and shorts or sweats kinda guy.

Anonymous

#7 16w

I don’t believe you look like a bear I’m gonna need some evidence

Anonymous

#8 16w

Remember the whole, “leave you alone and wish you well as soon as you say no…” Yeah, you’re gonna need to work on that part!

Anonymous

#7 16w

hey that was not me, OP, hitting on you. don’t get me wrong haha

Anonymous

OP 16w

You’re good, I’m just laying some ground rules for those who apparently didn’t get the memo 😁

Anonymous

#7 16w

yeah haha those are my rules because I’d hate to be sexually harassed but some gay dudes think it’s fun to convince a dude to try it even when that’s unwelcome.