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OMG a nonchalant man is enough to make a girl go fucking clinically insane. i want to rip my hair out. so my question is WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS
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Anonymous 5w

In my experience I’m just not always that outwardly expressive in my face. I still try to communicate my thoughts clearly though. I think a term for it is having a flat affect

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Anonymous 5w

Trauma response

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Anonymous 4w

Nonchalance is definitely a trauma response. You are speaking to one right now.

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Anonymous 5w

i think you should just avoid nonchalant men altogether. they're clearly not mature enough to be expressive about what they want

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Anonymous 3w

Because we might just not care about the same things you care about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Or they aren’t into you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

it has nothing to do with his facial expressions

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

So basically he’s not showing interest then? At that point you have your answer, just don’t engage with it

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