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Is this a nightmare text “do u see this as more of a friend thing or could this ever be serious” To the guy I've been texting and sleepovering with What do I say for clarity
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Anonymous 13h

I would ask him in person tbh

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Anonymous 9h

As long as he doesn’t think you’re gonna ultimatum him or cut off the fwb-ing, it’s not a nightmare text You could make sure by leading with that. Something like; “hey I’m ok with either and I’m not gonna let the answer get in the way of our good thing so be honest:…” Ofc he’s got to BELIEVE that, so I hope your rapport is one that makes him trust you and feel expressing himself to you. If he’s on guard or you have a history of ambushes or trap questions, ur not getting an honest answer.

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