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Do you find these characteristics attractive or unattractive She doesn’t like hanging out with men, no male friends. When hiring a plumber/mechanic she always finds a woman. Doesn’t have celebrity crushes. Doesn’t like being approached by men or hit on
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Anonymous 1w

You don’t need to have a ton of male or be into more masculine things, but if you go out of your way to avoid men in your day to day life I wouldn’t be comfortable dating you

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Anonymous 1w

If she doesn’t like hanging out with men why would she like hanging out with me and if she doesn’t like being approached how would anyone ever get with her

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Anonymous 1w

Unattractive. I find it attractive if she has male friends and doesn’t avoid men. It’s giving either she would control my female friends or she would just be a man hater

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Anonymous 1w

Everything’s fine with me except the first one. No male friends? Not even a queer one? Kinda cause for concern there

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Anonymous 1w

Are u sure u even like men?

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Anonymous 1w

Eh

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Anonymous 1w

1. Attractive 2. Neutral 3. Attractive 4. Unattractive

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Anonymous 1w

I would find them unattractive bc it tells me she has some kind of maladjustment but I would assume it has to do with trauma so while I wouldn't be attracted based on these traits, I wouldn't fault her for them either.

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Anonymous 1w

No male friends 👍 Only female mechanics 👎 No celebrity crushes 👍 Doesn’t like being hit on 🫱

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Anonymous 1w

No male friends? She’s a keeper!

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 1w

Yea, why would I date someone who avoids who I am lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Well in this hypothetical she likes hanging out with you, you are the only man she wants in her company. And there are plenty of other ways to get to know someone besides approaching a stranger

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah but that’s just not gonna happen, it’s not realistic at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

This is actually a true story and they met through friends if you want to use that context

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Still they don’t seem liked they’d be a fun person to hang around and just hate men and I’m not dating someone that couldn’t be friendly with my friends or share interest with me which they more than likely wouldn’t if they didn’t ever wanna hangout with men

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Actually, “being approached by men” and “being hit on” are two different things. If she just doesn’t like being hit on, that’s neutral (possibly attractive, shows self-respect)

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

What’s the difference

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Anonymous replying to -> basedgigatruecel 1w
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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Being hit on implies an explicitly stated sexual or romantic intent, being approached is just being approached

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I guess the only times I’ve ever been approached I was hit on. Never had a stranger approach to just say hi

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Oh, I’ve never experienced anything other than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1w

This isn’t about me lol. I saw a Reddit story from a guy whose gf behaved like this. But from what he described it seemed like a green flag, and he described her as a misandrist for it. I don’t think I conveyed the context very well tho, I think the actual girl from the story does have male friends she just refuses to hang out with them unless there are other women there too. She will hang out with her bfs friends as long as there’s another women, but if it’s just her bf and his friends no

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