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Ask Men 6w
do guys appreciate if a girl occasionally pays for the ubers, dinner etc?
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Anonymous 6w

No I hate when I don’t have to pay every time while the other person doesn’t pay anything

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Anonymous 6w

I couldn’t live w myself if I let that happen

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Anonymous 6w

See my girl comes from a rich family and pays for almost everything so my broke ass definitely appreciates it 😂

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Anonymous 6w

It depends. If she comes from a multi millionaire family that writes her blank checks every month then nah I’d have no problem w it. If I’m out there making money and she’s in school or hasn’t found a job yet then ofc I’ll pay

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Anonymous 6w

Every time that happens I send her the money back

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Anonymous 6w

Yes I do

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Anonymous 6w

We appreciate that.

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Anonymous 6w

Girls open their wallets around you guys? Hmm

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Anonymous 6w

I personally like going Dutch, at least for the first few dates

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Anonymous 6w

Don’t get me wrong, guys like to take care of girls when we can, but when we’re only dating, and hanging out with you uses all my money it’s a little frustrating that I’m expected to just wave it off, but you get to actually build a savings.

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Anonymous 6w

No, it turns me on to spend every cent that I have while my girl gets to live lavishly on my dime.

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Anonymous 6w

Yes, we do!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

rly

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Anonymous replying to -> mrunknown 6w

awww

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

😐 sarcasm

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

She hates and loves it at the same time

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 6w

The few times she’s done that I was in the bathroom or she bought me a gift

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 6w

I can’t tell if this is sarcasm or not, because that is a fetish 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 6w

Of course it’s sarcasm! I work for MYSELF not to treat a freeloader! Of course I’ll buy sometimes and treat her and stuff but I fully expect to pay every so often! Or at least offer to!

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 6w

Expect HER* to pay every so often!

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6w

In fairness because this has pop’ed up in my notifications, it’s not that I expect the woman to pay. I expect her to be a partner. Dating is an invite to do cool shit. She should invite me places, and I should invite her places. If she wants to eat a picnic in the park, awesome. If she wants to bring me to a sports event awesome. But I shouldn’t need to plan everything, and shouldn’t HAVE to pay if she invites me somewhere, if there’s special circumstances more than happy to though.

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