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Hi gentlemen! I’m a college girl and am considering becoming a stripper but am nervous about how it would affect my dating life :( i’m not doing it for no reason, i’m a pre-med major who will have lot of student debt and am already working another job too
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Anonymous 12w

most guys would not be willing to date a stripper, even a former one, much less an active one. that’s just the truth, sorry.

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Anonymous 12w

I would never date a stripper no matter the reason

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Anonymous 12w

For me and the guys I know it’ll be a harsh judgement. That being said I do understand the financial circumstances that would compel you to do that and I empathize with you there having been in that position before I can understand the desperation. I’m sure there are some guys who would be forgiving maybe even overlook it even though it may not be ideal for them. But it’s your choice and you got to do what you got to do

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Anonymous 12w

I personally wouldn’t care about stripping, it’s more like prostitution that’s an issue because risk of stis but stripping is totally fine! I know some guys who strip

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Anonymous 12w

I would never, sorry

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Anonymous 12w

Ima be in trouble if I talk but short answer never

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Anonymous 12w

I personally don't think your occupation reflects onto you and your morals. If you have the goods to be a stripper then be a stripper. You take a chance with every relationship that they'll lie or cheat, so being a stripper in my opinion is not any different. Plus in your circumstances it's to put yourself through school, and I think that's a pretty solid reason. It's not really your fault that there is a market for that and stripping is an option for you.

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Anonymous 12w

for me it would depend on what kind of stripper she is. if shes giving lap dances, i would probably not mess with that, but a pole dancer i have no real issue with. thats some really impressive shit they do

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Anonymous 12w

You’re likely going to struggle with dating since most guys aren’t interested in girls that reveal their nude (or in this case mostly nude) selves to a lot of people.

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Anonymous 12w

If your going into pre med stuff your trying to be a doctor of some sorts right?

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Anonymous 12w

If you’re worried about dating life stripper ain the way to go

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Anonymous 12w

personally no, just to protect myself. i'm kinda going off the assumption that she might be a promiscuous person, and don't really want that in a relationship. but i have a friend that did date a stripper at one point

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Anonymous 12w

I personally do not have a problem with this. It feels weird to just write off a woman because she’s a stripper. The stigma around the job seems unfair to me. What do I care if other men like to look at my girl? She’s my girl at the end of the day. They can look, but I can touch. I mean there are terrible people out there that aren’t strippers so it stands to reason great people can be strippers.

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Anonymous 12w

Personally I’d date a stripper if we were super compatible. Sex work is real work and all that, and stripping doesn’t involve any intimacy (look up definition, intimacy is not just touch) or sex. I would draw the line at someone having sex with other people for a career, and I’d probably be disinclined to believe I was compatible with a stripper because I’d expect her to be a little crass and shallow

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I appreciate your honesty :(

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 12w

Can I ask why? Sorry, it’s probably a stupid question

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

Also just a heads up as someone in medical school some schools would look at that and might reflect poorly on you, especially in the south

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

You’re taking your clothes off for other guys. It’s disrespectful to me and I don’t trust that you would stay loyal

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

Yeah they would know that she understands human biology well!

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

Do you think guys would have a problem dating a girl who did a bartender job? I’m considering that too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I don’t think many guys would have a problem with bartenders. I don’t know if the pay is better or worse than a stripper’s but I’d say go with just the bartender job instead if you can.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

Okay, I’ll think i’ll try that! Thank you for your input! :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

U sure u can do two jobs and med school id rather take the debt and lower chances of failing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

You’re welcome, good luck job hunting and good luck with college.

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Anonymous replying to -> orange_joyful_cat44 12w

i’m not in med school quite yet, i’m in undergrad, trying to start saving to pay off my debts now! My current job is very flexible and I work only summers and breaks :) I’m looking for a job for while i’m up at school in the fall that would bring in decent money but not interfere with my classes (a night job specifically!)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Makes sense, you seem like a normal respectable human so I'd avoid stripping. Hopefully you can find something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Yeah me personally I’d recommend bartending over being a stripper bc basically everyone who’s not Muslim drinks, but generally speaking “promiscuous” behavior like stripping is frowned upon in the south like I said earlier, and if ur from there then that kinda hurts your chances of getting in. You could also get a cert and pick up work as an EMT or MA, which is 2 birds with one stone (med school app help and money) though the work would be tough

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

There are tons of college students who work the bar scene at the college I go to and they are tipped handsomely

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 12w

I mean I understand that but she isn't like having sex with them? Plus have you seen the men who go to strip clubs? They usually aren't the type you have to worry about. I feel like if fear that you SO isn't staying loyal no matter their occupation is just a result of a lack of trust issues, since there is temptation everywhere. Being a stripper imo wouldn't change that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

Ehhh, other people would understand OP’s anatomy

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Anonymous 12w

how did i not answer the question?

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12w

yes! :) 11 years of schooling!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Ok so heres what i know about doctors and other career fields that are expensive (i know this because im a pilot). Your future job will be worth the temporary pain of having student debt. On top of this if you become a stripper what company would hire you to be a doctor let alone a nurse? Hell even if you started an OF thats still risking your potential of being hired. There are countless stories of nurses and doctors who got into that buisness their employer or future employer found out⬇️

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12w

And then fired or refused to hire them. Is it unfair? Maybe but you have to think who runs the medical side of things. A whole bunch of old croaks who live in the past. Becoming a stripping might fix a temporary money problem but in the long run would destroy your ability to be hired. AND would destroy your dating life. Its better and more worth it to maybe just get a job as a bartender or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Whatever you decide to do make sure you remeber that the amount of debt you have right now is worth it in the long run IF you stick with being a doctor

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