Um, not wanting sex on the first few dates, learning about things you like that aren’t sex related, and wanting to be eventually induced to you’re friends and family as well as you being introduced to his friends and family.

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Invited you on a date not to hook up. Wants a relationship not a Fwbudsy

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when they want to actually get to know you. they ask questions and not ask about kissing or whatever

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Not asking about sex. Talking about the future

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He’ll show genuine interest in getting to know you and actually going out or doing something other than staying in and having sex. He’ll text you randomly and not sexually, like he was thinking abt you.

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If they actually try and get to know you and don’t ask to hookup after each date

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It's very simple to track the order of things. If he wants to have sex before a relationship then he wants just sex, if he wants to have a relationship before sex then he wants just a relationship. A very simple way to filter out sex dudes is to not have sex of any kind before a public label.

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