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Do y’all actually use sex as a way to show affection to your partner (not a HOOKUP, a PARTNER like ur girlfriend) or is that just a lie to persuade them into having sex more?
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Anonymous 5w

Absolutely yes. In fact I only want to have sex with one woman in my life and she will be the woman I love

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Anonymous 5w

Yea, like there’s just a level of vulnerability that comes with it. Like it usually does really mean smth. Not many guys are just getting naked in front of girls yk. Also kinda depends the vibe too, lazy cuddly sex is a lot different from rougher sex ykwim. Different levels of intimacy and whatnot, you can probs gauge off of that yk

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Anonymous 5w

Can be. Def if love involved, but on the other side of the coin, a guy just needs some (but it doesn’t take away from his care for her)

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Anonymous 5w

It can be passionate and a way of showing it but it’s not the only way

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Anonymous 5w

Some do, personally I would only fuck the woman I love most on the damn rock, which is why I don’t personally understand why so many people do casual sex nowadays.

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Anonymous 5w

Yes. Romance/intimacy are arguably the single biggest changes from a friendship to a relationship, and to me sex is a way of expressing that. On the other hand I’m also very anti-hookups, so some other people will not feel the same way

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Anonymous 5w

My libido goes off like crazy when I’m in love with someone. Usually I’m fairly horny, but I don’t mind just taking care of myself. When I fall in love I specifically want to sleep with them and taking care of myself doesn’t satisfy that impulse. Also sometimes it’s easier to put feelings into actions than it is to describe them in words, which is why I love making out with my partner when I’m into them

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