Yea, like there’s just a level of vulnerability that comes with it. Like it usually does really mean smth. Not many guys are just getting naked in front of girls yk. Also kinda depends the vibe too, lazy cuddly sex is a lot different from rougher sex ykwim. Different levels of intimacy and whatnot, you can probs gauge off of that yk
My libido goes off like crazy when I’m in love with someone. Usually I’m fairly horny, but I don’t mind just taking care of myself. When I fall in love I specifically want to sleep with them and taking care of myself doesn’t satisfy that impulse. Also sometimes it’s easier to put feelings into actions than it is to describe them in words, which is why I love making out with my partner when I’m into them