you can choose not to breastfeed in public sure but if you have the ability to breastfeed you don't really have a choice in not doing it. you will physically do it against your will. that's why nursing moms are giving time at work to pump bc if they don't they will leak. this is like basic human biology i fear.
do you know how the female anatomy works? do you know how intricate and complex it is when a women is pregnant? like you obviously don't. if you think changing a diaper is disgusting after watching the birth of your child, then i honestly can't help you and feel bad for ur future spouse and children.
Sorry, I meant to refer to pedophilia specifically and an inability to desexualize genitalia when I was talking about dads being weird. Being uncomfortable in general is fine as long as it has absolutely no sexual connotation. If there’s any sexual element at all to someone’s thoughts about children, especially their own, they should be kept away and at the very least undergo serious therapy.