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Should I keep talking to him? He’s not my usually type but i’ve been enjoying us getting to know it each other and it’s been almost two months. I think him not being my type is stopping me but realistically his goals and ambition is not what I look for
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Anonymous 6w

Yeah keep talking to him

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Anonymous 5w

Wdym his goals and ambition is not what you look for, like you don’t like guys with goals and ambition and you want somebody more live in the moment? Or do you mean they don’t align with urs? If they don’t align with yours might be a concern. Like if he’s career focused and doesn’t want kids, and your family centered and want five kids, might be smth to stay away from. We need details girly

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Anonymous replying to -> bobthebuilt 5w

They don’t align with me. He has interest in what I think are hobbies and side job which it may or may not go anywhere. I think it won’t go anywhere respectfully. I want to be a nurse while he wants to make music…. Never shut down anyone’s goals and dreams but realistically we talked about wanting to be financially stable before having kids and how is that going to happen if that’s what he chooses to do. Am I being too harsh?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

It’s a little harsh if they aren’t directly affecting you own, like him wanting to do music doesn’t have affect on your ability to be a nurse right now, but the life styles would be very different. It’s not absurd to start distancing yourself as you see major issues with the relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> bobthebuilt 5w

It’s the different life styles that makes me question what we have going on but slowly noticing his qualities part of me wants to give it a chance. I’ll just see what happens

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