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3 dates in, guy yelling at me when I didn’t respond within 30 mins, saying he would hurt himself if I left. 1st date I said it was ok for him to talk about his feelings, so he said I’m a hypocrite for asking him to stop that stuff. Was I unfair?
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Anonymous 17w

This guy needs to see a professional, not a partner

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Anonymous 17w

Get away from that dude, I dated a girl like that, it never ends, they do not change

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Anonymous 17w

You were not unfair and someone threatening to harm themselves is abusive. You should tell the cops or something to let them know and then break up with him. They will do a wellness check and you don’t have to put up with that behavior

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Anonymous 16w

Exit the relationship, for your own safety. It will be devastating, whether it’s emotionally, mentally, or physically, it will take so much out of you and leave you with lasting trauma. Extricate yourself while it’s easy, because the longer you’re in it, the harder it’ll be to get out

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Anonymous 17w

Jeez

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Anonymous 17w

Please block him 💀

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Anonymous 16w

GIRL RUN! That’s a psycho!

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Anonymous 16w

Block this is an unstable abusive situation he will take away your inner power and light

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Anonymous 17w

Genuinely pisses me off now guys like that even get a second date when I only go on a single date in a year and she blocks me afterwards despite me having done nothing insane like that and felt that we had an overall respectful conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

I told him that but he would just talk about how much he loved me and how he needed me more

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Sincerely, get away from this person before they become a life altering problem for you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

“If you really loved me, you’d go and see a professional about this.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

Not blaming you I’m just saying I feel so bad hearing about all these crazy partner stories and I’m glad I’m single it’s way better than this insanity I hear about

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