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Asked my bf what he thought about my outfit and he said “you look skinnier”. Compliment feels kind of back handed?

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Anonymous 6w

I don't even think that's a compliment I think that's just an observation

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Anonymous 5w

Girl and guy social cues work very different. That was probably just observation and was intended as a compliment or meant as more advice typa thing so you replicate in future. Men are simple. Doubt he meant anything extra behind it

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Anonymous 6w

Doesn’t seem backhanded

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Anonymous 5w

Just take it as a compliment he probably meant it in a good way but has horrible execution

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#4 5w

Yeah I’m sure he meant it in a positive way because he knows I’ve been lifting more in the last few months. It was just so weird to me because he’s never made any sort of comment about my weight

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OP 5w

Yeah take it as a compliment your hard work is paying off and hes noticing

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