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So fellas, I'm a man too but I really like this girl. She has a long distance bf who doesn't treat her that good and could be treated way better. How can I make her see she deserves better and could do better? She's so fine and cool as fuck
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Anonymous 3w

Don’t homewreck, if she’s able to emotionally cheat on him, she could with you brother. Stay safe

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Anonymous 3w

don’t intervene, if she’s willing to leave someone for you shell leave you for someone else later down the line

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Anonymous 3w

Not worth

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Anonymous 3w

In what way doesn’t he treat her that good? It sounds like your desire to be with her is clouding your judgement of him, in which case you should not home-wreck, but if he legitimately isn’t treating her well, even if there was no possibility of her being with you, then yeah, as a good friend, you should tell her that she deserves better than the shitty treatment from her boyfriend (not necessarily you though).

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Anonymous 3w

Honestly ion know if it’s worth it man I mean first if she doesn’t realize how bad he treats her she obviously likes him a lot plus since he’s long distance what’s stopping her from still being emotionally Available for him I mean if u want her to see u gotta start with the little things till she realizes but don’t be weird abt it u got to be just be normal if she notices she does if not she doesn’t 🤷

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Anonymous 3w

Brother so what? Thats her relationship its not your job to get her to leave unless hes actually abusing her

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Anonymous 3w

(im a girl) dont do anything crazy she does have a boyfriend but maybe take her out to do her fav thing and maybe a little physical contact like holding her hand

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Anonymous replying to -> bobthebuilt 3w

I'm not trying to homewreck I'm trying to get her to end this relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I don't even care she's so fine she can do whatever she wants to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

thats what you say now man but don’t say I didn’t warn you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I’ve done ts before

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

From your post, I’m skeptical that’s the case though, as you seem more concerned about really liking her and wanting to be with her than her boyfriend not treating her well.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Honestly this sounds so pathetic, even if she breaks things off with him you wouldn’t be an improvement for her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

this would be good advice under different circumstances 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

cheating isn’t advice (you only hold hands with who you are dating not guy friends 💀) - girl to girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

wait is holding hands actually that serious?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

yes its what couples do

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