Not what they see black women as less than or just a piece of meat. Slave masters use to rape black women and make their husbands watch. Then proceed to chop of the husband penis and if the woman got pregnant hang her from a tree and cut the baby out of her stomach letting it fall to the floor.
I think the point is that every black woman or white man has more to them than their demographic, and that even within those statistics that’s a very wide range. There definitely exist particular white men who are more progressive than particular black women. Plus there are plenty of healthy relationships between black women and white men, that’s not even a question.