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If a guy has been in a relationship before will he mentally compare my body/beauty to his exs?
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Anonymous 3w

Not anymore than a girl doing the same

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Anonymous 3w

I mean I think it’s possible but not worth putting thoughts toward imo

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Anonymous 3w

Probably not. If it’s nice it’s nice. And he obviously thinks it’s nice or he wouldn’t be with you. Not something I would spend your time thinking about.

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Anonymous 2w

I think a big thing too is if a partner is doing this, are they having the occasional thought to themselves, or are they constantly telling you comparisons? One is pretty normal, the other feels manipulative

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I’ve never had an ex but he has so I wasn’t sure

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

it would be pretty normal for anyone to do it. And it can be good or bad comparisons. It's our nature

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