Anonymous #1 5w

How

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Anonymous OP 5w

How is it not? It used to be “the worst she can say is no” but now it’s “the worst she can do is make up a lie about you on social media accusing you of sexual assault and ruin your life”

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Anonymous #2 5w

What does that mean

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Anonymous #3 5w

Ofc when I want to start lol

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Anonymous #1 5w

Ok but how is doing that. Yes it happens but not as often as yall think

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Anonymous OP 5w

It’s more about the possibility of it happening at all. Even if it doesn’t happen, rejection isn’t a pleasant feeling

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Anonymous #6 5w

It’s more the idea of making someone uncomfortable keeps me from approaching anyone in the first place

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Anonymous #1 5w

I mean yes ofc but I’ve been rejected as well….that happens when you put yourself out there

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Anonymous #5 5w

Right!

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Anonymous #6 5w

I mean i can get that but if ur respectful it’s fine

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Anonymous OP 5w

I am, but I’m also just awkward and my brain smashes me with anxiety

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Anonymous #4 5w

I think that can happen, but it doesn’t happen as often as ppl say online

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Anonymous #6 5w

I am too! I’ve been trying to do it more often and it gets easier

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Anonymous OP 5w

Still makes it scary af, it’s no different to how people tend to be afraid of spiders despite them being unlikely to attack you nor do much damage (unless you’re in Australia, lol).

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Anonymous #4 5w

Plus my insecurities and awkwardness around people I don’t know, don’t help me either.

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Anonymous #4 5w

That’s social anxiety then. It truly helps to work on that(I’ve had to)

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Anonymous OP 5w

Well considering women tend not like shy and insecure guys, then what’s the point.

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Anonymous #4 5w

Girls can like shy guys. I’m shy myself

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Anonymous OP 5w

It means men are still approaching women and women still hate it

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Anonymous OP 5w

Well even god forbid I am lucky enough for the girl to say yes, I doubt she’d even like me and is just bored or trying to get a free meal or something, really anything but actually be attracted to me, and if she was, my nervous self sabotaging ass would likely make her lose interest anyway.

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Anonymous #2 5w

No we want it,,,most of us do

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Anonymous #4 5w

Yeah I’m sure they aren’t. Working on confidence will help a ton

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Anonymous bobthebuilt 5w

I’ve always been single so I’m ready to go into the dating world

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Anonymous #8 5w

I mean when we say no we can get hit but girls still try. Move past the rude people

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Anonymous OP 5w

I don’t need to date lmao I just work, go to the gym and play video games. No stress of getting rejected or cheated on and I get to save all my money for myself

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Anonymous #8 5w

That’s so fr. Like at some point I’m gonna want kids so maybe later in life I’ll make that sacrifice but for my early and mid 20s I ain’t gonna worry about that

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Anonymous #2 5w

How old r u?

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Anonymous OP 5w

20

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Anonymous #2 5w

Oh that’s young lol…I’m 25 I hav met life together so I’m ready to be in a relationship

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Anonymous OP 5w

I wish you luck on that front then

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Anonymous #11 5w

Like, do I go up to a woman in the grocery store and go: “I see you’re buying tide detergent. NICE… I use Tide too!@

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Anonymous #11 5w

Grocery can be iffy tbh it depends on what aisle you’re at lol and what happens. I’ve been hit on at the grocery store and it was fine

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Anonymous OP 5w

It was a joke… but I’m glad it’s not out of the question 🤣🤣😂

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