I think I’d prefer someone with similar experience to me. For example, I like chess. Playing chess is fun to teach to others but it’s more fun to play with someone at my level. Additionally, if I play against a Grand Master, it’ll be neat to see how they play against me a few times but I wouldn’t truly enjoy it because they are way out of my league.
I see your analogy. However, this is not nearly the same as playing chess with someone. When you’re playing chess, it’s just a game. You’re looking for the thrill. But when it comes to a relationship with someone and knowing they have had plenty of fun with other people, I don’t think it would feel as great. But that’s just my opinion.
You’re talking about a Grand Master. Yeah I wouldn’t enjoy it either. But if I have been playing with lots of people before them, it would be odd of me to expect them to not have any experience. If I haven’t been playing around a lot, I would feel more comfortable with someone less experienced. What I’m saying is that my experience dictates what I would be comfortable with. I can’t just blanket statement say, I only like virginal women to date. I did when I was a virgin but now I’m different.
It’s actually very possible to be over 18 with no romantic experience. It’s really not the end of the world. And also, it does not mean that there’s any issue. Maybe that person is focused on other things and a relationship is not a priority?? Or maybe they don’t really care abt a relationship? Or it just simply hasn’t happened yet? Or maybe someone’s dating for marriage and doesn’t want to date just for fun?? Ever thought of those examples?!
Let’s.. break these down💀 we’ll set a baseline, I’m 20 and my dating range is 20-22. I’m a straight guy so I’m only dating straight girls. “Maybe that person is focused on other things” like what? School? A sport? Neither of those things leave no time for a relationship. “Maybe they don’t care about a relationship” then they’re not in the dating pool? “It just simply hasn’t happened yet” in 2025? As a girl? Right. “Maybe someone’s dating for marriage” this isn’t a gotcha. It’s 2025. It’s not
This is Lauren from bb27. She's beautiful, sweet, 23, and never been in a relationship. Plenty of guys want to date her but she's picky and wants to focus on other things. That doesn't mean there's anything "wrong" with her or that she's less than because she's never had a relationship.