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My bf is moving to my city after a year of long distance, Ive always been looking forward to being around him again, but someone please explain why I feel so scared and nervous. It’s like there’s so much pressure and who is this man. 😭😭😭
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Anonymous 4w

It’s very reasonable to be nervous. The past year you’ve developed your own routine, gotten used to seeing him through a screen, and now him coming back is going to change everything about how you’ve lived the past year. Don’t be afraid to take it slow when he comes back. go for small dates and m spend more and more time with him, just take it at the speed you feel comfortable and communicate with him the fact that you’re doing this on purpose

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

that’s very helpful, I was hoping I’m not alone in feeling like this. I feel like it’s everything I’ve been waiting for but at the same time I’m so used to long distance that it feels scary

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