She’s my wife for a reason. I took a vow to be faithful and I fucked it up. It’d make me less of a man to lie

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Nah I'd rather divorce her without her going through the whole "is it my fault??" thought process.

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Nah, especially if you two have kids, that could cause a lot of turmoil for them, especially in the event of a separation. If no one else knows then no one else in gonna find out. A little lie by omission won’t hurt. I’m gonna assume she would do the same too.

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