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I’ve never been approached/flirted with, and I wanna make sure I’m not scaring ppl off. What are some things yall take as signs a girl doesn’t wanna talk? I never have headphones on, and never look at my phone when I’m out walking or standing around.
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Anonymous 19h

guys are scared of rejection

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Anonymous 18h

I always feel like being approached will come off as desperate or weird or something like that especially if I don’t know the girl/don’t have a reason to be talking to her plus the fear of rejection or that she has a bf. Being too attractive is real, it’s more intimidating the more attractive u are

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Anonymous 21h

Okay most of the guys in this new gen prefer to stay behaved then being flirty. We men usually work on one principle. Which is. she attractive?:- yes Is she a wife material?:- yes then dont be a creep If no then be a creep. And maybe you are just wife material so thats the reason its not a bad thing to be a wife material the perk is you land on a guy who is nice rather then a guy who cheats

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Anonymous 1d

Or is it I’m likely just too ugly to be approached lol

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Anonymous 6h

Approaching is pretty much inappropriate

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Anonymous 2h

RBF

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

might actually be a thing of you being “too attractive” honestly. it really just depends on the girl etc

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

Most Gen Z men are not gonna be comfortable approaching a stranger in the middle of they day. Both men and women have to draw in potential partners by building familiarity first

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

True i agree with this

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