Well first you need the proper gear. Finding a man is the easy part. For keeping one, I suggest a tranquilizer to start. Specifically, a high-potency alpha-2 adrenergic receptor agonist with sedative, analgesic, and muscle relaxant properties, structurally related to imidazole compounds—commonly formulated as dexmedetomidine hydrochloride. Once he’s unconscious and in your room, just make him cookies or something