it’s a turn off to expect me to be the sole earner it’s a red flag to expect me to be unemotional

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Yeah lmao

7

It’s not every guy’s cup of tea, but in my opinion it’s fine if (and only if) you’re willing to do your part too. If you want him to lead, you’ve gotta be ready to follow. If it’s his job to provide financially, then it’s your job to provide at home. If he’s gotta be strong, then you’ve gotta be supportive. If you can’t do all that, then you can’t expect him to either.

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Personally I like that my girlfriend feels that way about me. I can’t speak for every man but i feel like as a man i need a purpose when it comes to my relationship

4

Yes ew tf get a job brokey. If I expected traditional from a woman I’d sound like a misogynist cuz those ideas are outdated. We need to treat women who internalize patriarchy equally (just as bad) as we do men .

3

Yeah absolutely. She can go find a conservative but in this household we both pull our weight financially and emotionally. Cause we’re equals ❤️

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Yes

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Yes

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