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Unpopular opinion: women are more shallow than men
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Anonymous 5w

Not a question

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Anonymous 5w

Depends on the demographic of man vs women we’re talking bout

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When you consider most men are emotionally immature I find it hard to come to this conclusion. Not that some women aren’t also emotionally immature but it’s definitely more common for men to be like that

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Anonymous 5w

depends on the person, one size doesn’t fit all

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Anonymous 5w

No, just shallow different

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 5w

Also I tend to feel that the men who are very open about not caring about women’s looks are more vocal about this than women who don’t care about men’s looks when choosing a partner. You’d be surprised about how flexible women’s standards (for physical attractiveness) can be once they find genuine connection with a guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

This ignores familiarity, we live in a hell on earth socially/spiritually so of course something will be broken because of it (the way we view each other physically)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

what is "message" in this context

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

the rate at which users on a dating profile would message other users

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

what does this graph imply? i'm having a hard time reading the graph

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

dotted lines are how attractive users rate the opposite gender. solid lines are how often users message the opposite gender. basically men rate women on a typical bell curve but overwhelmingly only message women they find highly attractive. women tend not to find many men all that attractive but still message them frequently (seemingly bothering less with highly attractive men)

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

i have these screenshots from a video where she cites it - i think it's OkCupid data. i can find the video if you want. it's called "I Debunked the Entire Manosphere" and it's in the section about dating apps and "hypergamy"

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