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Ask Men 1w
Need some advice from the guys. My partner and I have been dating for two years, engaged for 4 months. They repeatedly brush me aside, go out to hang out with random other people for events, parties, dinners, and never make time to even talk anymore.
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Anonymous 1w

Based of this small snippet you’re sharing he does not sound worth your time

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Anonymous 1w

I drive 7 hours each way to see them. Often taking 10-12 hour shifts so I can take Friday to drive out to them. They make no effort to see me. No effort to talk to me, and when I go to them to voice my worries they play the victim, saying things they aren’t good enough. This past weekend was the last straw for me. They were hospitalized Wednesday. I heard a little through a mutual friend, then nothing until yesterday when I drove out to them. When I get there, they wouldn’t even look at me

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Anonymous 1w

Have you talked to them about it?

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Anonymous 1w

my go-to advice is that if you talked to him several times about an issue and there is no change nor even a hint of effort/intention to change, then it's time to leave the relationship behind

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Anonymous 1w

it’s jover

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Anonymous 1w

Break up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Tried to. Every time they shut down and revert to how I’m either being controlling for wanting to spend time with them, or that they’re “not good enough”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I mean, I’m sure you don’t want to hear it but if you can’t even talk to them, then what’s the point? They clearly don’t want to put any work in, why should you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I’ve honestly been thinking that for months now. I just don’t know how to go about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 1w

It sucks, because when we first met she was everything I thought I wanted in a partner. We were planning to move in together after she graduated, I’ve been house shopping for us, the whole deal. Idk what changed in her but I don’t even get the time of day now

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