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Ask Men 14w
i told my bf happy pride month bc he doesn’t eat me out (sorry if that's tmi) as a joke btw and he's like genuinely upset by it, and idk why bc he's usually the first one to say something is "gay" like did i actually cross a line or ?
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Anonymous 14w

Why doesn’t he eat you out

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Anonymous 14w

you're undermining his identity as a guy and his mental health. even if it's a "joke" it's not funny

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Anonymous 14w

Assuming you give him top Hes already wildin for not returning the favor but he also can’t take a joke? Besides if he’s insecure abt being called gay he can do one of the objectively straightest thing a man can do and just eyp

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Anonymous 14w

nah this valid

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Anonymous 14w

His reaction is weird af for who he seems to be (from what I read in the comments), but I will always stand by the belief that men should be allowed to not want to give head in the same way that women are allowed to feel uncomfortable with and not give head

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Anonymous 14w

girl why are you with this guy? also he shouldn’t be so sensitive if he can dish out gay jokes all the time🤣

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Anonymous 14w

Make sure that thang is clean. I love eating out but I'll get turned off faster than a lightbulb if you don't take care of yourself

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Anonymous 14w

I hope you’re not giving him head

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

im a bi person too and i think this is a terrible joke 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

that not the the problem bc we do other things lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

we've both made worse jokes trust me 💀 also like respectfully I don't think it's that deep, eating pussy is probably the straightest thing a man can do, and he doesn't so i jokingly called him out on it. it's literally not any different than why he and his friends call things "gay" that aren't

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 14w

he doesn’t want it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

to* not it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

If yall joke about stuff of this caliber on the regular then yeah his reaction’s kinda crazy. Like out of the blue coming from a partner it kinda hurts, especially because a buried insinuation is that you don’t/can’t love them, but if this is normal shit then I don’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14w

he literally said to me (a half black woman) a racist joke that im not gonna repeat bc i don't want my comment removed lol so yeah and when i asked him abt it he said it was "nothing"

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Girl drop this sack of shit you deserve someone who’s gonna respect you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Then you’re valid

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 14w

i am bc he enjoys it and i enjoy it. im not like upset he doesn't eat me out and he knows this are at least i thought he did

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Anonymous 14w

yeah

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Anonymous 14w

not really, it's not something he's comfortable with so im not gonna force him to do it

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