being a stay at home wife is my dream but i refuse to do it and watch my husband struggle to provide for our family. im getting my degree and working until i have the option to stay at home and if for some reason i need to start working again i will without a doubt

14

Absolutely not! I’m trying to get that dual income household!!! 🤑🤑🤑🤑

10

Only if I make the money to support it

8

I’m gonna be a doctor so hopefully money won’t be an issue (but seeing this economy idk what’s gonna happen) so if she’s not a stay at home wife/mom it’s bc she wants to be working not bc she has to

7

Ideally I’d love nothing more than to find a woman who supports me with nothing (right now) and then eventually get to the point where she can be stay at home and I treat her like my world. But in this economy😬☹️

7

I was raised by a girlboss and my kids should have that experience too. Plus, yeah, the money would for sure be nice

7

I do not care cuz I’ll be able to take care of us no matter what

6

If we don’t have kids idc either way but most of the time when people have kids it barely makes sense to have dual incomes especially when the kids are below like 12. You’re going to end up spending a significant amount of one income on daycare if not all of it. It’s just going to mean someone else is raising your kid and both parents will be exhausted by the end of the day. Dual income literally doesn’t even make sense until the kids can stay home alone for long periods of time

6

Honestly, relationship goals is we’re both retired early. Maybe we have some projects, like own a small business or two or something we pay somebody else to run, but like until we’re both retired, I feel like we should be trying to work? Every cent helps us get closer to our retirement number.

5

I put stay at home wife mostly bc my mom was, but who knows what life has in store. Could be the other way around (but I’d be working from home).

4

No preference honestly

4

I want independence for my partner but at the same time, if I were to have children with them, it would be nice if I was financially well enough to maintain all of us while she stays at home

3

No amount of money you could bring to the table is more valuable than what you could give to our home and our kids

2