
Women are lied to honestly. Its called toxic positivity because you need a healthy dose of self-critique and women lack that. I feel society should be more honest and less “yass gurl 💅”, because no, the overwhelming majority of men are not attracted to seemingly overweight women even if it’s branded as “thick”.
I’m getting downvoted from the “yass gurl 💅” types. I also think whatever preferences you have should be matched with whatever standards you have force yourself. If I am busting my ass in a dojo using Muay Thai to keep my shape, I am 100% within my privilege to prefer non-thick women. To women’s credit, you can’t be a guy with 24 diet cokes in your fridge talking about body preferences.