Ask Men on Yik Yak | Tw sex advice? Me and my man were going at it last night and he just went soft out of nowhere? Should I be concerned, I know guys think it’s embarrassing but I also don’t want him to thinking I’m judging him for it ya feel, just need advice, thanks!

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Ask Men 13w

Tw sex advice? Me and my man were going at it last night and he just went soft out of nowhere? Should I be concerned, I know guys think it’s embarrassing but I also don’t want him to thinking I’m judging him for it ya feel, just need advice, thanks!

Anonymous 13w

Just don’t make a big deal about it and show him some extra affection if he seems to be feeling down from it. I would also recommend asking him if there’s been anything that’s been bothering him recently because that’s one of the main causes of not staying hard

Anonymous 13w

The fact you aren’t assuming it’s something you did is huge, I wish more people understood that. Seconding what #1 said, just show him you care about him regardless

Anonymous 13w

Just be cool. It’s probably nothing. If it’s a frequent issue he can talk to his doctor about it. It could be low testosterone levels or just needs viagra. Trust me, it’s definitely not you

Anonymous

#2 13w

Yeah I made sure to clarify lol, made sure to give him some extra tight hugs and cuddles this morning

Anonymous

#1 13w

sounds like my gut handled this the right way then, thank you!

Anonymous

#3 13w

yeah it’s the first time it’s happened so I guess if it happens again next time I’ll check in and see if he’s okay or what I can do to help— not super experienced in that department lol