Ask Men on Yik Yak | Would you hold it against a girl if she’s had low self esteem in the past and has been with shitty men before. But now she regrets it and changed as a person on what she is looking for in a man?

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Would you hold it against a girl if she’s had low self esteem in the past and has been with shitty men before. But now she regrets it and changed as a person on what she is looking for in a man?

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Anonymous 26w

Depends

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Anonymous 26w

if she's changed then I wouldn't know about the past unless it's brought up on purpose but what's the reason to bring it up anyways

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Anonymous 26w

if she shows real signs of change

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Anonymous 26w

regrets what???

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Anonymous 26w

If it’s an active detriment on the relationship then yes

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Anonymous

#2 26w

On what?

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Anonymous

#6 26w

Of being with a shitty man in the past

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Anonymous

OP 26w

got it i was so confused 😹

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Anonymous

#7 26w

Detriment like how?

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Anonymous

OP 26w

Like it actively gets in the way of the relationship on a regular basis

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Anonymous

#7 26w

Yeah but like how would that show up as lol

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Anonymous

OP 26w

Like if she’s CONSTANTLY trying to tell me I’m an idiot for dating her I’m gonna get over it really quickly. My ex was so bad about it she went to great lengths to get me to break up with her because of her low self esteem.

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