Ask Men on Yik Yak | Would you hold it against a girl if she’s had low self esteem in the past and has been with shitty men before. But now she regrets it and changed as a person on what she is looking for in a man?

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Would you hold it against a girl if she’s had low self esteem in the past and has been with shitty men before. But now she regrets it and changed as a person on what she is looking for in a man?

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Anonymous 5d

Not sure

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Anonymous 5d

Depends

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Anonymous 5d

if she's changed then I wouldn't know about the past unless it's brought up on purpose but what's the reason to bring it up anyways

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Anonymous 5d

Nah. I believe in second chances.

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Anonymous 5d

if she shows real signs of change

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Anonymous 4d

regrets what???

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Anonymous 3d

If it’s an active detriment on the relationship then yes

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Anonymous

#2 5d

On what?

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Anonymous

#6 4d

Of being with a shitty man in the past

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Anonymous

OP 4d

got it i was so confused 😹

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Anonymous

#7 3d

Detriment like how?

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Anonymous

OP 3d

Like it actively gets in the way of the relationship on a regular basis

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Anonymous

#7 3d

Yeah but like how would that show up as lol

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Anonymous

OP 3d

Like if she’s CONSTANTLY trying to tell me I’m an idiot for dating her I’m gonna get over it really quickly. My ex was so bad about it she went to great lengths to get me to break up with her because of her low self esteem.

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