Ask Men on Yik Yak | Would you hold it against a girl if she’s had low self esteem in the past and has been with shitty men before. But now she regrets it and changed as a person on what she is looking for in a man?

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Would you hold it against a girl if she’s had low self esteem in the past and has been with shitty men before. But now she regrets it and changed as a person on what she is looking for in a man?

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Anonymous 7w

Depends

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Anonymous 7w

if she's changed then I wouldn't know about the past unless it's brought up on purpose but what's the reason to bring it up anyways

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Anonymous 7w

Nah. I believe in second chances.

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Anonymous 7w

if she shows real signs of change

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Anonymous 7w

regrets what???

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Anonymous 7w

If it’s an active detriment on the relationship then yes

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Anonymous

#2 7w

On what?

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Anonymous

#6 7w

Of being with a shitty man in the past

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Anonymous

OP 7w

got it i was so confused 😹

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Anonymous

#7 7w

Detriment like how?

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Anonymous

OP 7w

Like it actively gets in the way of the relationship on a regular basis

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Anonymous

#7 6w

Yeah but like how would that show up as lol

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Anonymous

OP 6w

Like if she’s CONSTANTLY trying to tell me I’m an idiot for dating her I’m gonna get over it really quickly. My ex was so bad about it she went to great lengths to get me to break up with her because of her low self esteem.

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